...the deeds he performs
A man is known by the deeds he performs first of all. Words are nothing, words means nothing. It is not a big deal to say just the words people want to hear. It doesn't take much to pronounce something, to speak about something and to compound a sentence with necessary meaning. Though, it takes much to do it. It takes much to follow one's word and to fulfill one's promises. But there is nothing easier than to make those promises. Never believe in what people say if they say too much. Those people, who say too much, only waste their time for talks in order there were no time left to implement promises.
It is common that women pay much attention to talks, but men never act like that. They talk less but they do much. That is how the real man does. A man who talks too much, who considers promises a pipe - is a man who will never implement those promises. A Man knows, that sometimes it is rather hard to keep a word, and so he says that the best way to keep one's word is to keep it to himself. It doesn't mean that he is a man who is in a lack of faith in oneself, but it does mean that he doesn't want to make promises he may fail to implement.
A man, every woman wants to spend a life with, is a man who acts first and then talks about what he has one, but the windbag prefers talking for acting. He always says "I will" and seldom says "I did". Do you want your man to be like that? I bet you don't. So, to prevent such man making promises he will never implement you have to avoid him. Most of women think that if a man is silent it means that he doesn't want to talk or to promise what she wants, but they are extremely wrong. A man who is mostly silent is a man who knows for sure that deeds much more expressive than the words. If you are wise enough you will hear in his deeds everything you wanted to hear in his words.
Watch his behavior and you will know for sure who the man next to you is. First of all, the real man will never get mad at once. No matter what happens he will do his best in order to deal with situation first of all. Once he found out who were right and who were wrong he will make a decision about what has to be done. But he will never turn to devil and get panic. Forget about a man if he says "My friends say" because he is a man of no point of view. It is more important for him to think just like his friends think. He will never mind your point of view if it runs counter the point of view of his friends.
It is not a man to spend a life with and he will remain so until he will realize that childhood is over. And this day will come only after he faces with betray or ignorance of his friends and will be smart enough to realize it. Whatever you will do, you will never manage to explain him that it is high time to live on his own, without asking friends for permission or approval. As a rule, men like this remains lonely at last. It always happens as there is no such power able to in-put brains to his head. Have you ever wanted to be a surgeon and transplant brains? If you haven't – you don't need a man like this.